THE SUCCESSFUL FAMILY BUSINESS:
A Proactive Plan for Managing the Family and the Business

NOVEMBER 14, 2003


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By Edward D. Hess,
Distinguished Executive in Residence,
Executive Director - Center for Entrepreneurship and Corporate Growth, and
Adjunct Professor of Management, Goizueta Graduate School of Business

Emory University
Atlanta, Georgia

edward_hess@bus.emory.edu


The following are testimonial's for Ed's new book: The Successful Family Business: A Proactive Plan for Managing the Family and the Business was published in November, 2005 by Praeger.

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"Anyone who is involved with a family business -- family shareholders, family employees, other family members, independent directors, and advisors to each of these groups -- would benefit from this work. Ed Hess has digested a lifetime of real-world experience into an issues-oriented and example-filled resource that addresses the questions, issues, and tensions that family business participants will find very familiar. As an attorney who works with closely-held and family businesses every day, I am pleased to have such a practical resource to recommend to my clients".

- Stuart C. Johnson
Partner, Corporate Group, Arnall Golden Gregory LLP
President, Association for Corporate Growth, Atlanta Chapter


"Through compelling real-life stories and practical lessons, Ed Hess provides a solid look at family business life. If family business leaders follow Ed’s advice and implement methodical programs to achieve the ideals set forth in this book, they will find the ultimate dream within reach: a successful business and a happy, harmonious, and productive family".

- Joseph H. Astrachan, Ph.D.
Director, Cox Family Enterprise Center
Wachovia Eminent Scholar Chair of Family Business
Editor, Family Business Review
Coles College of Business
Kennesaw State University


An engaging, action-oriented book for family businesses both large and small. There's no substitute for the experience Ed Hess brings to his subject. From my 20 years of working with family businesses in the real estate industry, Ed Hess's observations, "operating rules," and sensitivity to the issues involved with operating and growing a family business should be welcomed by a variety of family business leaders.

- Jeffrey A. Scott
Managing Director
Real Estate Corporate FinancelWachovia Securities



For anyone who works in a family business, this book should be kept at your fingertips and referred to often. The book is written in a style that is straightforward and easy to comprehend, but Ed Hess's common sense approach should not mask the great wisdom that is contained within the pages. As a person who has worked in a family business for the past 21 years, I find Ed Hess's advice to be right on the mark -- I only wish I had the opportunity to read the book years ago. For anyone considering a career with a family business, whether as a family member or an outsider, you simply must read this book to begin to gain an appreciation for the very complex nature of family businesses.

- Jack Spector
President, Hixon Properties Incorporated
San Antonio, TX


The following are Customer Reviews listed on Amazon.com

A must for a family business, August 18, 2006
Reviewer: S. P. Newell


I have not only studied this fine text, but I have bought copies for four friends with family businesses. I am personally aware of many of the pitfalls associated with a family business, but reading this book increased the breadth of my awareness greatly. And, most important, it provided great insight into how to deal with these many issues. I believe strongly that being forewarned is being forearmed, and this book provides invaluable warnings and solutions regarding family business challenges. I personally believe it is a must read for all members, direct and indirect, of family businesses.


A. Whitaker, August 1, 2006
Reviewer: A.B. Whitaker


As a Financial Services professional focused on advising Ultra-High Net Worth individuals and families during and after significant liquidity events, I have been witness to the issues that arise prior to, during, and after the sale of a family business. Ed Hess has thoroughly explored the realities that families must face when creating a succession plan. Hess also thoroughly discusses the typical exit options that exist for business owners as well as the qualitative considerations that families should explore before selling a business. I highly recommend this book and plan to use it as a reference tool on an on-going basis.


The Successful Family Business: A Proactive Plan for Managing the Family and the Business , July 29, 2006
Reviewer: Michael D. Easterly


Acquainted with Prof. Hess, I was looking forward to reading the book, as it is on a subject with which I was not fully familiar. I was not dissappointed. Straightforward, well organized and with great case studies, I believe I now better understand this specialized area of business. I recomment this book for anyone working in or advising a family business, and am lending my copy to a good friend with a considerable family business interest.



Family Planning, February 21, 2006

Reviewer: J. Douglas "Retired Senior Executive"


This book represents a complete summary of relevant, major issues facing any family business. Each of these issues will be actively managed or at least contemplated in the life of any family business and the long term success and viability of the organization is dependent on how or if the issue is resolved. Ed Hess provides thought provoking guidance on how to deal with each problem encountered. He points out the relationship and dependency of many of the issues to each other and the need for timeliness in addressing the subjects. This book is a must read for CEO's and Directors of growing family businesses.



I. WHAT IS THIS BOOK ABOUT?

Creating and managing any private business is challenging; an estimated 70% fail within five years. When that business employs family members or has family shareholders, an added layer of complexity comes into play - family emotions.

To successfully manage a family business, you need to manage not only the business but also the family. Unfortunately, the most common business management strategies, styles, and processes do not lend themselves well to managing the emotionally-charged family issues.

This book focuses on the different management styles and processes needed to successfully manage a family business. This book sets forth an attitude approach, a perspectives analytical template, and a disciplined process for family business leaders ("FBL") to manage the evolving family dynamics of a family business. Secondly, most family businesses face similar problems as they age and this book sets forth practical advice (50 Family Business Operating Rules) based on 25 years of consulting, teaching, and research. The book is both a roadmap and a resource for family business leaders, employees, shareholders, and spouses.

The key themes of this book are:
1) Every family business will face issues created by the conflict between the financial needs of individual family members and the financial needs of the business;
2) Every family business will face issues created by the conflict between family members employed in the business and those not so employed;
3) Family issues are best managed proactively and preemptively;
4) The process of managing family issues is as important as the result - how they are managed is key; and
5) A family business should institutionalize an agreed-upon approach of how family business issues will be raised, debated, and resolved.

This book gives the reader multiple real world examples and four in depth case studies to be used as learning tools. The book is written in practical, how-to language and is direct and opinionated, based upon the author's 25+ years representing family businesses as a lawyer, investment banker, consultant, and lastly as a teacher.

The key differentiators of this book are:

1) This book sets forth a step-by-step approach to creating a family business management process - how to get the right mindset or attitude; a perspectives analytical framework; and how to set up processes to manage family business issues;
2) This book teaches family members to accept and deal with the normal evolution and lifecycle of family business issues that will arise as businesses and families age;
3) This book talks practically about family issues of power, greed, ambition, rivalries, in-laws, the generational issues of retirement, succession, and the common feelings of inequity and unfairness arising not only between different generations but also within generations between family members employed in the business and those not so employed;
4) Through real-life examples, different solutions are brought to life for consideration; and
5) This book sets forth new theories: the SANDBOX THEORY; a new perspective on rivalries and succession, and the GOLDEN GOOSE PRINCIPLE - a new perspective on the inherent conflict between the business and individual family members.

This book sets forth over 50 family business rules that apply to commonly reoccurring family business issues:
• Family Employment
• Family Compensation
• Family Promotions
• Family HR policies
• Family Perks
• Family benefits
• Boards of Directors
• Dividends
• Stock restrictions
• In-law participation
• Prenuptial agreements
• Stock ownership restrictions
• Succession issues
• Equitable treatment of non-employed shareholders
• Sibling rivalries
• Stock buy-back plans
• Outside directors
• Outside CEOs
• Gifting of stock

The book has a richness and captivating no-nonsense style and also focuses on how decisions in one area will have predictable consequences in other areas.

II. WHY ME?

The purpose of this book is to reduce the probability of the business destroying the family and the potential of the family destroying the business. The goal is to be the #1 selling family advise book.

I am the Distinguished Executive in Residence, Adjunct Professor of Organization and Management and Executive Director of the Center for Entrepreneurship and Corporate Growth at Goizueta Business School at Emory University. I teach Entrepreneurship, Values-Based Leadership and Growth Courses.

Prior to joining Emory, I spent 31 years as a lawyer, investment banker and consultant to primarily private family businesses. I am a graduate of the University of Virginia School of Law; have a LL.M. (Taxation) from New York University; have been a partner at two investment banking firms, a partner of the Robert M. Bass Group, Fr. Worth, Texas; and a senior founding partner of Andersen Corporate Finance. This book is the culmination of over 25 years experience advising family businesses.

III. THE AUDIENCE

Family businesses account for over 90% of all businesses in the U.S. and employ over 60% of all employees. According to the U.S. census, there are over 5,500,000 businesses in the US. with less than 100 employees - many of which are family businesses. According to the IRS, there are over 12 million non-home based private businesses. Family businesses are big business. Millions of people face the challenges of creating a lasting legacy - something meaningful that they will pass on to the next generation.

The buyers of this book are:
1) Family business leaders;
2) Family members employed at a family-owned business;
3) Family members who are shareholders of a family-owned business;
4) Spouses of those who fall into categories 1-3 above;
5) Children of those who fall into categories 1-3 above;
6) Undergraduate business students studying family businesses;
7) Graduate business students studying family businesses; and
8) Family business professionals - accountants, insurance agents, lawyers, etc.


IV. THE COMPETITION - HOW IS THIS BOOK DIFFERENT?

There are a large number of books in the family business space - but there is no leading book and there is no leading reference book or handbook written in a practical, advisory manner for the average family member.

The best books are:

Succeeding Generations by Ivan Lansberg (HBS Press, 1999)

Generation to Generation by Gersick et al (HBS Press, 1997)

Keeping The Family Business Healthy by John Ward (Jossey Bass, 1987)

Individual Topic Pamphlets (50 pp) by Family Enterprise Publishers

The key differentiators of this book are:

1) This book sets forth a step-by-step approach to creating a family business management process - how to get the right mindset or attitude; a perspectives analytical framework; and how to set up processes to manage family business issues;
2) This book teaches family members to accept and deal with the normal evolution and lifecycle of family business issues that will arise as businesses and families age;
3) This book talks practically about family issues of power, greed, ambition, rivalries, in-laws, the generational issues of retirement, succession, and the common feelings of inequity and unfairness arising not only between different generations but also within generations between family members employed in the business and those not so employed;
4) Through real-life examples, different solutions are brought to life for consideration;
5) This book sets forth new theories: the SANDBOX THEORY; a new perspective on rivalries and succession, and the GOLDEN GOOSE PRINCIPLE - a new perspective on the inherent conflict between the business and individual family members; and
6) This book discusses all of the issues commonly faced by family businesses - not just succession; it is a complete, one-source reference book.

V. DETAILED TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

- 5 reoccurring themes
- Why is this book important?
- Why me?
- 4 major changes in your approach to family business issues
- Mindset
- Perspective
- Process
- Values

CHAPTER 1 - YOUR MINDSET AND YOUR PERSPECTIVE

- Reactive vs. Proactive
- Your business will change
- Your family will change
- Change is a given
- Money is the focus
- 3 different perspectives
- Different management styles and procedures are needed for family issues
- Negative family management styles
- Positive family management styles
- Golden Goose Principle

CHAPTER 2 - TWO COMMON MISTAKES OF FAMILY BUSINESS LEADERS

- Avoidance
- Failure to face reality
- Reactive or proactive
- Examples

CHAPTER 3 - A PROACTIVE FAMILY MANAGEMENT PROCESS

- Objectives of a Process
- Key Components
- Why a Process Is Important
- The HOW is as important as the result

CHAPTER 4 - HOW DO YOU START YOUR PROCESS?

- The purpose of a process
- The 5 big issues all family businesses face
- First Step: Create a Family Values Statement
- Second Step: Create a Family Code of Conduct
- Third Step: Family Annual Meetings
- Execution Steps: How To Do It?

CHAPTER 5 - A FAMILY VALUES STATEMENT

- Purpose
- Golden Goose Principle
- Examples
- Bass Brothers Comment
- Bob Bufford Comment
- A Family Values Statement Example
- Mark Norris Comment

CHAPTER 6 - A FAMILY CODE OF CONDUCT

- Purpose
- Benefits
- Example of a Family Code of Conduct
- 17 Points

CHAPTER 7 - THE PRITZKER FAMILY

- A Case Study

CHAPTER 8 - ANNUAL FAMILY MEETINGS

- Objectives
- 4 Reasons why they are good
- Example of A Family Meeting Agenda

CHAPTER 9 - REVIEW OF KEY POINTS IN CHAPTERS 1-8

- 21 Points

CHAPTER 10 - EMPLOYING, COMPENSATING, AND MANAGING FAMILY EMPLOYEES

- Will family members be employed?
- How many?
- At what level?
- Prior work experience required?
- On what basis?
- Impact on other employees
- Impact on non-employed family members
- You need consistent and fairly applied HR policies
- 4 key points
- 2 conflicts
- A basic choice - arm's length rules vs. favoritism
- 7 operating rules
- Compensation - How should family members be paid? Should all be paid equally? Family pay vs. employee pay - an issue of equity; and three operating rules
- Performance Review
• Who should review the performance of family employees?
• Promotion policies, firing policies for family members.
• 3 perspectives
• 3 Operating Rules

CHAPTER 11 - WHAT BENEFITS SHOULD FAMILY MEMBERS RECEIVE?

- Corporate Perks
• Vehicles
• Insurance
• Accounting
• Buy at Cost
• What can the business afford?
• Family Operating Rules

- Dividends/Investments
• A big issue
• Business needs
• Individual needs
• 3 factors to consider
• Operating Rules
• Family Office Issue
• Investments

- Prenuptial Agreement
• 3 Operating Rules

- Family Loans

- Company Purchase of Goods or Services From Family Members
• Operating Rule

CHAPTER 12- FAMILY RETIREMENT POLICIES

- Mandatory retirement?
- Integral part of succession planning
- 5-10 year process
- Conclusions
- Stock Retirement
- Relationship of retirement, succession, estate planning and stock control planning
- The money pie
- 3 Operating Rules

CHAPTER 13 - FINANCIAL INFORMATION: DISCLOSURE AND IMPROPRIETIES

- Financial disclosure operating rule
- What do you do if a family member steals money from the business?
- 4-Prong Answer

CHAPTER 14 - BOARDS OF DIRECTORS

- Should you have independent directors?
- Generational representation?
- Purpose of the Board
- 3 Reasons to use independent directors
- Board structure
- Operating Rule

CHAPTER 15 - FAMILY CHARITABLE CONTRIBUTIONS

- Who decides?
- Relationship to family charities
- Use of charitable contributions to involve the family

CHAPTER 16 - SIBLING OR COUSIN RIVALRIES

- Why do rivalries occur?
- 4 operating rules
- How to mitigate rivalries
- The Sandbox Theory
- 4 Family Business examples

CHAPTER 17 - SIBLING RIVALRIES: A CASE STUDY

- The Bingham Family

CHAPTER 18 - SUCCESSION PLANNING

- 4 Common scenarios
- The people part
- A 5-10 year planning process
- De-personalize succession planning
- Succession planning is like life insurance
- 7 operating rules
- What if the family leader refuses to discuss succession? - 4 answers
- What if you have competing siblings or cousins? - 4 operating rules
- What if there is no good family successor?
- Transfer of stock ownership

CHAPTER 19 - AN OUTSIDE CEO

- When do you need an outside CEO?
- Qualifications?
- Compensation?
- Stock Ownership?
- 5 Common occurrences
- Is it just a timing issue?
- Sale of the business vs. bringing in an outside CEO
- The traits of the right outsider
- If possible, hire someone you already know.
- How do I find an outside CEO?
- Should a non-family member CEO own stock?
- Should the non-family member CEO be Chairman of the Board?
- What if you make a mistake?

CHAPTER 20 - AN OUTSIDE CEO CASE STUDY

- Edens and Avant

CHAPTER 21 - A SUCCESSFUL FAMILY SUCCESSION CASE STUDY

- The Beach Company

CHAPTER 22 - FAMILY BUSINESS LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT

CHAPTER 23 - STOCK LIQUDITY

CHAPTER 24 - THE SANDBOX THEORY

CHAPTER 25 - OTHER FAMILY BUSINESS ISSUES:

- Managing Execution
- Why Successful Companies Often Fail
- Going Public to Get Rich - Reality Therapy
- The Challenge of Growth
- Why Should Anyone Follow You?
- What Do Leaders Actually Do?

CHAPTER 26 - FAMILY SHAREHOLDERS NOT WORKING IN THE BUSINESS

CONCLUSION - THE GOLDEN GOOSE

BIBLIOGRAPHY


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VI. SAMPLE CHAPTER

For my writing style, attached are two commentaries.


VII. RESUME


VIII. BOOK STATUS

The third draft of the book is in typing. It is 80% completed and will be approximately 250 pages in length. It will be completed by January 31, 2004.


IX. AUTHOR SUPPORT

The author is the Executive Director of a major Center at a top 20 graduate business school where he also teaches graduate and undergraduate business courses. In addition, the author publishes (according to the publisher, a "very successful") monthly column in Catalyst - B2B, a leading Southeastern business magazine with over 60,000 subscribers.

Moreover, the author markets his writings to over 400 major Southeastern/MidAtlantic companies three times a year, and the author usually gives four - six speeches a year at either national, regional, or local events.

All of the above platforms generate exposure and opportunities to sell the book. The author plans to use any advance from the book to hire a marketing firm to arrange media interviews and to advertise seminars based on the book's content.


X. TESTIMONIALS

The author will provide appropriate testimonials from leading academia, family business owners, and family business advisors


Attachments:
1) Managing the Family Business
2) Why Should Anyone Follow You?

 

THE FAMILY BUSINESS:
THE GOLDEN GOOSE, THE PROCESS, AND THE SANDBOX

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By Edward D. Hess,
Distinguished Executive in Residence,
Executive Director - Center for Entrepreneurship and Corporate Growth, and
Adjunct Professor of Management, Goizueta Graduate School of Business

Emory University
Atlanta, Georgia

edward_hess@bus.emory.edu


Eighty percent or more of all businesses in the U.S. are family controlled. Over 50% of the work force works for a family business. Family involvement in a business adds an additional layer of complexity to the customary challenges facing business builders. There are books and articles which deal with the common family business issues of nepotism, succession, and equitable treatment of family members not in the business. Today, I want to share with you three lessons I have learned over the years in working with many family businesses:

1) Rule #1 - Do not kill the Golden Goose;
2) An entrepreneurial management style will not work with family issues; and
3) Everyone needs their own sandbox.

I. DO NOT KILL THE GOLDEN GOOSE!

Building a successful family business is hard. Successfully passing it along to future generations is even harder. In fact, 70% of all family businesses do not successfully make the transition to the second generation.

Difficult emotional issues arise in all family businesses: issues involving employment of family members, compensation of family members, equity amongst siblings, the cash needs of family owners not employed in the business, in-law issues, succession choices, and as importantly, the effect of all of the above on non-family employees and managers. Family issues are like waves in the ocean. They keep coming and coming and coming. As family members age, their perspective, needs, and views of the business change. These changes interact with changes in the business to produce a nice unique gumbo of issues for every family business. Issues, which if ignored, can kill prematurely the golden goose.

A family business which produces enough profits to support many members of a family is a unique treasure and blessing to be appreciated by all. All family members need to understand what they have and how fragile it may be - not only do you have the risk of business factors but you also have the risk of family factors which can kill the golden goose. Family members need to be made aware and sensitive to how they, yes, they can destroy the business as easily as the competition unless they learn to communicate and work through family issues.

Every family member that "feeds at the family business trough" has the duty and responsibility to understand the uniqueness and goodness of what exists and further has the responsibility not to hurt the business or cause serious strife out of personal self-interest. The good of the whole outweighs the greed, selfishness, or ego of the one. Pure and simple, paraphrasing General Douglas McArthur - duty, honor, and family. Family leaders have the obligation to educate family members about the realities and risks to the business from outside the family and from within the family. The family has to agree on certain inviolate values which all can ascribe to. These overriding values will help family members deal with business issues and family issues as they arise. Families need to meet and discuss values and goals, and reach understandings about those values and goals for both the business and the family.

II. A DIFFERENT MANAGEMENT STYLE IS NEEDED FOR FAMILY ISSUES

Managing family issues is different than managing business issues. Non-family member employees are easier to talk to, persuade, and direct than family members. You can be more objective about non-family members and issues. The common entrepreneurial management styles and process of quick decisions and taking charge does not work well with family issues.

The emotional aspects of family impacts decision making, impacts communication directness and honesty, and the carryover of family issues to the home - and in some cases, to the bedroom - make it impossible to leave family business issues at the proverbial office. The emotional complexity comes not only from the participants' emotional baggage but also involves spouses, parents, and siblings. Every family has issues. Every individual has family emotional "baggage". Accept those realities and manage them.

An autocratic, quick decision making, handle-it-once-and-for-all entrepreneurial mentality does not work well with family issues. A different style and process is needed to lessen the risk of family issues destroying the business. And this different management style is hard for entrepreneurs to adopt successfully. It is contrary to their demeanor and way of operating. It is a style of openness, communication, listening, being empathetic, and having a forum or process of allowing all of the family emotions to be vented, heard, and discussed with resulting compromises again, again, and again. Family leaders need patience, listening skills, and dispute resolution skills. Or, they need to bring in a facilitator.

Listening, giving people the opportunity to be heard, and having a process whereby family members are educated about the realities of business is critical to managing the family. The process is as important as the results. Reaching the quick bottom line results does not work well in this arena. People have to go through their own process of dealing with their respective needs and wants relative to the family and the business. It is constantly evolving and never ending.

Family councils, family constitutions, and frequent family meetings do and can work to mitigate against the risk of killing the golden goose if and only if you have a process that is values driven and the family understands its duties and responsibilities toward the whole not just me, me, me. To do this takes time, emotional effort, listening, compromise and leadership. Remember - you ignore family issues at your peril; they do not go away. You have to manage family issues differently and with a different style and mental framework than business issues.

III. EVERYONE NEEDS THEIR OWN SANDBOX

Many family businesses dissolve or split up because "everyone needs their own sandbox." Siblings or cousins want to show themselves and others they can make it on their own or they want control of what and how their money is spent. And so, you need to plan how to address this need for individual sandboxes. There are different ways that I have seen work:

A. Business Structure - Structure the business so that different siblings (assuming qualifications and training - remember the golden goose) have "their own sandbox" within the business whether that be a function, a location, or a product that they are responsible for. Give people the opportunity to be independent with specific non-shared responsibilities. Give them the burden of responsibility and leadership.
B. A Separate Investment Vehicle - Another alternative is to give certain family members their own sandbox in the form of a family investment or a venture capital vehicle separate from the business.
C. Separate Toys - Another alternative is to give each family member a meaningful amount of assets over which they have sole investment or spending control.
D. Invest in Them - Lastly, the business can invest in a new business of a family member either directly or indirectly through the purchase of services or products. I have seen this work well with in-law issues.

All four of these alternatives attempt to deal with individuals' need for autonomy and their need to prove to themselves and to others that they are worthy and good. In some cases, it is not the direct family member driving the needs or stirring the pot; it is the daughter-in-law or son-in-law. As stated above, an education process is a necessity for new family members - family values and the common good must trump individual greed and ego.

You family business is your own unique multi-variant set of issues. Recognize that you have to spend time managing family issues, too. Good luck with your gumbo and remember rule #1 - Do not let family issues kill the golden goose.

ENTREPRENEURIAL LEADERSHIP:
WHY SHOULD ANYONE FOLLOW YOU?


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By Edward D. Hess,
Distinguished Executive in Residence,
Executive Director - Center for Entrepreneurship and Corporate Growth, and
Adjunct Professor of Management, Goizueta Graduate School of Business

Emory University
Atlanta, Georgia

edward_hess@bus.emory.edu


My MBA students spent the Spring studying leadership. Their journey took them from Jack Welch to Sam Walton to Howard Shultz to The Ritz Carlton Corporation to Chick-fil-a Company to Presidents Nixon, Ford, Reagan, and Clinton and to General Harold Moore and the U.S. Army. Along the way, we talked about Greek philosophers, Hitler, Gandhi, and Machiavelli. We studied two movies - "We Were Soldiers" and "Changing Lanes" and debated at length whether the ends justify the means or whether how you play the game is more important. For those interested, a detailed syllabus for Business 665 is on my website (www.EDHLTD.com). It was a fascinating trip for us.


We focused on several questions:

1) Why should anyone (employees or customers) follow you?
2) What are the roles of personality, charisma, timing, context, situation, and adversity in leadership development?
3) Why do some companies achieve consistent execution excellence?
4) What really motivates employees?
5) How can MBAs understand and lead hourly employees?
6) What is the relative importance of strategy, structure, people, and process in building a great business?
7) Why is execution so hard?
8) How do you make repetitive, boring jobs fun and meaningful for employees?
9) What is the relationship between an entrepreneur's personal values and the business culture?


I believe that principled or values-based leadership is the most important element in building a world-class sustainable business. Unless suppliers, customers, employees, and lenders trust and believe in you, you will fail. Leadership is a daily job - it is hard, fun, meaningful, and challenging.

What is leadership? There are over 200 definitions of leadership. Some people cannot define it but know it when they see it. Let us start with what leadership is not. We considered Leadership is not about perks, money, power, adulation and ego fulfillment. We concluded that:

1) Leadership is a Trust Relationship.

If operational excellence is your goal, if consistent high quality customer satisfaction is important, if employee loyalty and enthusiasm are important, employees have to trust you and believe in your goals. Trust is earned - not bought. Part of trust is respect. Trust is respect for your values - that you will act in the best interests of your followers and not solely in your self-interest. Trust is earned drop by drop but lost by the bucketful. The essence of a leadership relationship is trust between the leader and the followers and vice versa.

2) Leadership is Honest, Two-Way Communications.

The execution of leadership on a daily basis is through honest, direct two-way communications with employees and customers. Employees want to know what the objectives are; how what they are doing contributes to those objectives; how the business is doing; how they are doing; how they can improve. To be effective, communications need to be direct, concise, two-way and repetitive.

To be a good leader, you must be a good listener and understand people and their emotions and motivations. Two-way communication gives employees respect and sends the message that he or she is a valued member of the team.

3) Leadership is Teaching and Learning.

Fundamentally, to build a sustainable business you have to teach your employees and your managers what is important, what are acceptable standards, why what they are doing is meaningful, and how each person can develop to be all they can be.

Leaders lead by teaching, critiquing, and setting standards of conduct and performance. Leaders help people improve and learn. At the same time, leaders learn from their followers. They encourage different opinions and suggestions in order to instill a sense of ownership in the end result and to get the best results.

4) Leadership is Helping People Be All They Can Be.

A paycheck alone will not, in most cases, achieve operational excellence. Employees are human beings, too. Human beings thrive on recognition, thank yous, and pats on the back, if earned. Emotional rewards are as important as tangible rewards. As importantly, people want to be part of something bigger than themselves and something meaningful. They want their job to be important in some way. People want to belong to and be part of something that is viewed by others as good and meaningful.

It is a leader's job to create that meaning and to treat his followers with dignity and respect, to make them feel like they have a stake in building something special, and to help them advance and prosper.

5) Leadership is Courageous Acting.

Leaders act. Leaders never ask their followers to do anything they would not be willing to do themselves.

Leaders have the courage to make the tough decisions. Leaders confront reality. Leaders respect differences of opinion and debate. Leaders learn, adapt, adjust and most importantly, they make the tough decisions and act in the best interests of the whole enterprise - not just in their self-interest.

6) Leadership is Harmony Between What You Do and What You Say.

Gandhi stated, "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."

Or stated another way, leaders walk the talk. Leaders are loyal to their values and standards. Leaders understand that employees watch their actions, their moods, and how they treat others, in order to help determine a leader's consistency, reliability, and trustworthiness.

Hypocrisy, inconsistency, and dishonesty will kill your corporate culture and decrease your chances of operational excellence.

7) Leadership is "Washing the Dishes Often".

Leaders are not seduced by the perks of leadership. Good leaders do not forget they are only as good as their followers and they are there to serve their followers. Good leaders are humble, and understand the role of luck, education, opportunity, and birth in their success. Leadership is an attitude - an attitude of serving others. Good leaders never, never forget to honor and respect the menial, repetitive tasks done by others.

Good leaders eat with the troops. Good leaders wash the dishes. What do I mean by that?

When Dan Cathy, President of Chick-fil-a, came to talk to my class he shared with them his rule at operating at both the 80,000 foot level and at the 5 foot level and told them how at a new store opening recently in Florida, he washed dishes for two hours the night of the opening. That is a humble leader. Think of the message he sent to his employees. That is leadership.


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Like many things in business, the concept of leadership is not difficult to understand. What is difficult is the execution - execution day-in and day-out.

Leaders must focus on their followers - not themselves. A leader's focus is not I or me but we. What have you done today to show respect for your followers? What have you done today to help them learn, be better, and grow? What have you done today to help them do their job better?

Leaders understand the most important five words in a customer or employee relationship are "HOW MAY I HELP YOU?"


 
 



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